For a few months now Kyle had been able to comprehend things. For instance if you asked "where is Elmo?" he would get Elmo. Now, he actually helps and understands commands. He will bring me the phone if it rings and I am feeding Hailey. He will help me change Haileys diaper by handing me thee wipes and the diaper when I ask for them. He LOVE helping me cook. He will put the vegetables into the chopper for me to chop. Loves mixing the pancake mix. He is even beginning to pick up after himself (a little bit. I am not making my 18 month old do any hard labor).
I just realized today that Kyle and I are actually sharing mini conversations: about lunch, getting dressed, reading books, turning toys on and off. Its amazing. He is saying at least one new word a day and fully comprehending me. He even knows what warnings and time outs are. After a time out he always says sorry and gives me a hug and a kiss.
Kyle and I have shared numerous one ended conversations in the past- where I would either imagine his answer or believe by reading his face I knew his response automatically.
I truly have a hard time knowing my children are growing up. As much as I like them seeking and learning these new skills and losing a little more dependency on me, when I take a step back and take a deep breath I realize how magical it all really is. Kyle and I have shared numerous conversations, laughs, smiles, fun times and sad. The bond between a mother and child can not fully be explained, only understood by a fellow mother. Watching him learn and grow, and realizing it all has been one of the best blessings in my life =)
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